ANCHOR IN THE BREATH ⚓️

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morning meditation: east williamsburg sunrise

I OFTEN HEAR: “I can’t meditate,” but I know you can.

When we first learn to meditate, it’s easiest to anchor our attention in the breath. If we open our awareness too widely, we will get lost, and fast!

TRY THIS: Set a timer for 3 minutes, close your eyes, and bring your entire attention to your breath. Put your mind on it fully - simply, the IN and the OUT - and stick to it (like superglue!). When you notice that your mind has wandered away from the breath (and it certainly will!), worry not the tiniest bit, and simply bring your attention back to your anchor. Both the sticking to the breath part + the noticing when you’ve wandered off track part are equally important in this type of mind training (think: gym class for your brain 🏋🏽‍♀️ ).

WHY THE BREATH IS AMAZING: it’s our life force; it’s always with us; we can control it if we want; it’s ever-changing (like the sky 🌄, like our minds, like life itself); it’s shallower + contracted when we’re anxious or scared; it’s long + full when we’re calm and chill; it connects our minds to our bodies in a very direct way (thanks #vagusnerve) and a plethora of indirect ways; we can use it as a tool for quieting ourselves; it costs us nothing, yet without it, EVERYTHING changes.

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 This Moon Deck card has been resonating with me in a very deep way this week:

THE RHYTHM OF MY BREATH DIRECTS THE RHYTHM OF MY LIFE.

Perhaps it resonates with you too?

TEACHING THE NEUROSCIENCE OF MEDITATION!

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What a joy it’s been to start teaching the neuroscience of meditation for Nalanda Institute’s Meditation Teacher Training at Pure Yoga West. My two other co-instructors Megan Mook and Scott Tusa are truly AMAZING meditation teachers! Looking forward to an awesome next 10 weeks! More to come soon! ♡

THE YEAR OF YES: MUSINGS - INTENDED ACTION

On this AUTUMNAL EQUINOX - I looked in the mirror and noticed a furrowed brow. On this day when day/night, light/dark are in relative balance, I have been pondering the deep IMBALANCES of our current state of affairs in the U.S. & our planet as a whole.

My meditation & contemplative practice keep reminding me that intention is the seed of our actions. When we begin noticing our presence (read: how we are showing up) in the present moment, we then have choice - we can DECIDE how to act RATHER THAN REACTING to the external circumstance at hand.

In this way, what we think can lead to chosen, intended action. Each action, large or small, is powerful. The ripples created by each one of us can change the sea. May I ask, how are you showing up in your own life in this very moment? 

The Year of Yes is a weekly photo-and-word installment by Dr. Shah written with the purpose of evoking hope, resilience, and a gentle movement toward healthy change in all of us.

THE YEAR OF YES, EP. 24: YES TO MORE LOVE

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You may roll your eyes and want to dismiss this as a platitude, but hear me out if you can. I am not talking about the sappy stuff of Disney films and I’m not talking about the hyper-sexualized conception of love by the Western world and media.

I am talking about the “affectionate concern for the well-being of others,” that is built on the foundation of empathic, compassionate care. Empathy is the core of true connection, with other humans including your love interest, animals, and the earth.

If practiced and cultivated, this type of love can help alleviate the suffering of human existence that we all tend toward - depression, anxiety, hopelessness, existential dis-ease. Its basis is in kindness and generosity, and science shows it can even help to make your coupled partnerships last

It’s important to remember, empathy and sympathy aren’t synonymous. Sympathy is feeling for someone, while empathy is a process that involves feeling with them.

Empathic love makes you feel calm, connected, and translates into warm and affectionate behavior. This means, physiologically, your adrenal (stress response) system isn’t in overdrive - in fact - empathic behavior helps to move your body processes into a relaxed place, where good “rest and digest” hormones take over.

Empathic love builds bridges. It leads to pro-social choices - ones that lead to not only benefitting yourself, but benefitting others involved as well. And though all of this may sound woo-woo or soft, I can assure you it won’t make you weak; you can still be a WARRIOR - a warrior who fights honestly, and wins fairly. 

So, how to practice empathic love? Loving-kindness (metta) meditation practice is a great place to start. When I’m having a bad day or having a depressive or anxiety-filled spell, I direct to one person after the next the following statements silently in my head:

“May you be happy, may you be healthy, may you be peaceful, may you live with ease.”

I may do it while walking on the street, on the train, driving in traffic, at work, or in the slowww line for groceries. Try it - it’s incredibly powerful - you'll notice how your stress starts to dissipate, your mood starts to shift and a sense of greater connection starts to grow. One that reminds you, “we’re all in this crazy, beautiful world together.” 🌎

Dr. Shah's Metta (Loving-Kindness) Cards

Dr. Shah's Metta (Loving-Kindness) Cards

THE YEAR OF YES: MUSINGS - WHAT IS SUCCESS?

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Thursday musings: WHAT IS SUCCESS? Working from home, unfiltered.

Maya Angelou said it wonderfully, “Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it.” .

Being an entrepreneur is the road untravelled. I always joke, “I have the most demanding boss” and then roll my eyes 🙄😅. You build your schedule, and within it you’re somehow building a dream. The map is uncharted. It means blurred lines and sometimes forgetting to eat. It means procrastination and tsunami “productivity.” Zoom meetings wearing a ratty white t-shirt. Dog underfoot. 1960s Tropicália blaring.

Sometimes it’s so challenging and the brakes feel like they’re screeching for hours or days, sometimes you’re on fire 🔥, burning through that to-do list, making connections you never thought possible.

Compassion and kindness toward oneself is not just important, it’s imperative. And it all comes down to: THIS IS LIFE, RIGHT HERE, RIGHT NOW. Being here right now, with whatever you’re doing at this very moment, is SUCCESS 💚

THE YEAR OF YES: NEW MOON CONTEMPLATION (POSTED A DAY LATE!)

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“Flying starts from the ground. The more grounded you are, the higher you fly.” - J.R. Rim

On this new moon day (8/11), let’s all begin the process of learning to fly, and one day to gracefully soar, by starting from the ground, using tools like mindfulness and lovingkindness meditation.

Working from within, from your inside ↠ and not seeking without ↠ you can discover that your wings are nestled right there with you, just waiting to stretch out, take up some space and work magic for you. Flying is easier than you think. Get quiet and start to listen!

With love and blessings. <3

 

THE YEAR OF YES, EP. 23: YES TO GOING SLOW

awesome street art in Williamsburg by Mike Makatron

awesome street art in Williamsburg by Mike Makatron

It’s been about a month since my last post. It’s because I’ve been purposely living life more SLOWLY. Summer is a great time to slow down - the weather is hot and humid, the days are long, and co-workers are away on vacation making getting things done take more time. But by slow, I mean easy, relaxed, and leisurely - not languid, sluggish or heavy.

How does one slow down? 

  • DO LESS. Pare down the to-do list to the ESSENTIAL + URGENT items. Leave the others. Disconnect from the e-devices for several hours a day. I loved the New York Times article on JOMO (the JOY of missing out!)

  • BE PRESENT. Feel the sun on your skin. Notice the gorgeous summer blossoms and foliage around you. Taste the fresh produce that’s bountiful right now.

  • LISTEN. Focus on listening intently to the person who is talking or the sounds that surround you. Don’t interrupt and don’t give your two cents. Just listen. Hear the birds' predawn chirping. Enjoy the sounds of the trees rustling in the wind. Notice the sounds of the summer rainstorms. 

  • WALK SLOWER. DRIVE SLOWER. MOVE SLOWER. Yes, you need to get it done. What is five extra minutes? Really, ask yourself if getting somewhere faster to save a few minutes is worth the stress. Do a walking meditation. Wander. Meander. Amble. 

  • DAYDREAM. Research continues to emerge showing us that daydreaming is an amazing (ahem, essential) tool to cultivate creativity and new ideas. 

  • PLAY. In the garden. At the park. Board games. While swimming. And laugh.

“How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives.” 
― Annie Dillard, The Writing Life

 

How do you slow down?  🐌

Sending positive thoughts and energy to you to make time for some dreamy, quiet hours. You most certainly deserve it.

 

The Year of Yes is a weekly photo-and-word installment by Dr. Shah written with the purpose of evoking hope, resilience, and a gentle movement toward healthy change in all of us.

THE YEAR OF YES, EP. 22: YES TO TULSI (HOLY BASIL) 🌿

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Tulsi, also known in English as holy basil, Ocimum tenuiflorum L, belongs to the mint family and is a cousin of sweet basil. It is a powerful aromatic herb that has been used extensively as a medicinal herb in Ayurvedic medicine. 

Its evocative scent is mesmerizing. Tulsi's unique fragrance qualities are spicy, sweet and herbaceous-somewhat minty, with a pronounced sweet, warm, clove-like essence.

Traditionally, tulsi is considered a purifier of the mind, body, and spirit. Some texts describe it as an adaptogen (stress modulator). One of the primary active compounds of holy basil oil is eugenol, which is a potent antimicrobial and is one of the compounds that gives it its distinct fragrance. Holy basil also contains other therapeutic components, including the flavanoids orientin and vicenin and phytochemicals such as rosmarinic acid and apigenin. The research on tulsi's other purported benefits looks promising, these include: blood sugar control, anti-cancer properties, and lowering stress hormones. 

As per Mountain Rose Herbs (one of my fave herb shops), holy basil has been “revered throughout India for thousands of years. Ayurvedic texts describe Holy Basil as a pillar of holistic herbal medicine and a goddess incarnated in plant form (the mother medicine of nature).” 

I distinctly remember my Nani - my grandmother - my mom’s mom - had a tulsi plant placed in the courtyard of her home in Gujarat, India. I am visiting her this fall and hopefully it’s still there!!

I decided to grow my own tulsi this year in my window box garden. It's growing like wildfire! I've been using the blossoms and leaves on my meditation altar, chewing on fresh leaves, and sometimes making a tea.

Give it a try! It’s a magical plant indeed! 💚

The Year of Yes is a weekly photo-and-word installment by Dr. Shah written with the purpose of evoking hope, resilience, and a gentle movement toward healthy change in all of us.

 

THE YEAR OF YES, EP. 21: YES TO 🌿 COOKING

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As you may know, I took a short break from The Year of Yes. It’s been a full and sometimes overly intense last few weeks. I needed some time to regroup. 

As promised, The Year of Yes will be including quick & easy plant-based meals! (See episode 20 for more details). 

My friend Scott and new East Williamsburg CSA neighbor-friend gave me the idea of garlic scape pesto. I took a look at a few recipes, but decided to make my own. So easy & quick! And so darn delicious!!

Ingredients:

  • 2 bunches basil

  • 1 handful garlic scapes 

  • olive oil

  • salt

  • pumpkin seeds

  • fresh / dried fresh pasta

Pulse together from lowest speed to medium in your Vitamix (or food processor if you have one.) I added more olive oil than I originally thought I needed  - enough to soften the leaves and make a nice chunky but moistened consistency. If you’d like to add parmesan to the mix, the pesto won't be completely plant-based, but i’m sure it’d be splendid and adda wonderful umami flavor. 

I used a fresh dried (eggless) tagliatelle. Pro tip* add enough salt your boiling pot of water to make it as salty as the sea. 

Pair it with a side of pan-roasted asparagus and cast-iron pan charred zucchini, pic 2! Or salad! Or sautéed spinach. Y U M . 💚

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The Year of Yes is a weekly photo-and-word installment by Dr. Shah written with the purpose of evoking hope, resilience, and a gentle movement toward healthy change in all of us.

THE YEAR OF YES: NEW MOON INTENTION

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The Year of Yes, New Moon Intention: Like peonies we unfold, layer upon layer of beauty and grace.

Episode 21 will come soon. I’m listening to my innate wisdom today, finally. My mind’s been scattered, my chronic neck pain’s been flaring, & I’ve been fighting off a viral illness... with openness of mind and being, what is my body trying to tell me? I must heed the heart and take rest.